How to give your wedding a personal touch
My name is Lottie Fowler and I am the owner of Couture Events by Lottie. We are not only an event planning company but we also cater to those who are looking for an overall design and event theme. I must admit I am not much for trends but I do take bits and pieces here and there and use them for inspiration. My favorite part of working with my clients is drilling down to the details that ultimately end up creating the scheme for the day. I LOVE alternatives so I thought I would provide some great alternate examples for guestbook’s and the “send away” toss. Having alternatives on your wedding day gives your guests a “personal touch feeling” and leaves them gushing even after the wedding is over. It gives an opportunity for new moments and memories to be made and engages family and friends to actively become a part of the event. There is nothing more boring than attending a wedding where everything is ordinary and nothing seems personal or intimate in anyway. You end up leaving feeling like you know the couple no more than a wedding crasher would. As a planner and designer, I hear this from many of my brides to be. They don’t have the time to dedicate to the details and their fear is that, they will just settle for ordinary. I don’t think we’d get calls if we were Ordinary Events by Lottie so in steps the Couture. Here are some ways to tailor your wedding to fit your personal wishes:
Guestbook Alternatives:

Instead of signing a matted photo, why not have a personalized and unique puzzle created like those from Bella Puzzles for guests to sign or write sweet wishes.

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Instead of a wishing tree, try a post card or recipe station?
Are you known for being over the top in love with something in particular? Do you over-obsess about your record player and vinyl’s or does the groom-to-be have some mad Jenga or poker playing skills? Get approval first but incorporating items such as a deck of cards or an old record is a great way to add personality.
All girls love china. Check out one of our favorite guestbook alternatives from Martha Stewart Weddings. Choose white dishes for the well-wishes, which show up nicely when inscribed with metallic paint pens. Then later arrange them on a focal wall in your home for a beautiful touch.
Oh how we love Christmas weddings and a wonderful way to incorporate a unique guestbook by having guests sign or wish you well on ornaments. You will have many years of laughter and heartfelt memories each Christmas season to come.
Getting married on a beach? Have wishing stones signed and collect them in jars later for décor.
Are you a southern gal or guy? Have guests type a note to you on a super cool vintage typewriter or place a print on your thumbprint family tree.
“Send away” Toss Alternatives: Unique Grand Exit Ideas
Nothing beats that first introduction as man and wife but the departure sure comes close. The night is over, your guests are happy, and you are both on your way to the hotel to… play some awesome Jenga. HA! I love thinking up creative ways to send the duo off into the night. Here are a few of our favorite grand exit ideas.

Rice kills birds, and birdseed attracts too many. So… why not toss lavender buds?
Say no to sparklers, say yes to ribbon wands like those found on Etsy.

Out with the bubbles and petals and in with the eco-parti toss! Lovely and won’t harm mother earth.
Don’t want to worry about the cleanup of confetti? Then choose paper airplanes! It’s fun and makes beautiful photos.
Since venues can be really particular about cleanup, you are usually always safe with choosing noisemakers like slappy hands or blow horns.